I really need a supportive response here. I know we are supposed to believe nothing we hear and only half of what we see. My W is so seemingly set on the idea that our R is over. I am having a hard time today believeing that anything I do would change her mind.
I almost just want to ask her if she wants a divorce. But at the same time I don't want to force her hand. This whole process is so confusing and feels wrong.
I haven't had any backslides for two weeks, but she hasn't really chnaged. I know that 2 weeks isn't long but it feels like an eternity to me.
Todays discussion came about because she first asked why it feels tense. i told her maybe it was a bit awckward but not tense. I kinda think she was mad about something before she even got here and she was jsut kinda acting out at me. Feeling very helpless today.
