Here's my simple advice for you right now, and it worked WONDERS for me...still does as a matter of fact.
I had to accept early on in my sitch that most of what I did via intuition in my relationship with my W was a bit off, or worse yet, totally wrong. It's not that I am a bad guy, or that I don't know my W, it's just that little voice in my head must have been on drugs most of the time because his advice was SO wrong SO much of the time.
That understood, I decided that whenever my "voice" or intuition told me to do something, i.e. have a R talk because I just HAD to let her know xxxxx or because I really needed to ask her about xxxxxx. I KNEW it would be ok because, well, because...um...
Basically, I just started doing whatever the opposite of my intuition told me to do. If I thought having a R talk was good to do, I made DAMN sure I kept my mouth SHUT that day.
It worked. Now the problem is understanding if I finally, through DB and all my other reading, can trust my intuition again. This part is a little more difficult.
