Not too many of us having a GOOD weekend. I will settle for surviving. I have unique perspective on life. With this MLC thing, if today is bad, then I have tomorrow to look forward to as better. I am beginning to understand that no contact from S is what gives you some control.I am currently into Pursue and Distancing. So I am looking to become the distancer, so H will become the pursuer, just a bit. I have no illusions. I will probably have to endure the end of my legal marriage. But that is when I see the most hope for turning my relationship around. He never will think I will let him go. So I think he is testing me. That is why I like not having any contact towards my husband. I see it as powerful. Hope this helps.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
