My W recently told me that she didn't really believe that I would be faithful to her if I was given the chance to stray. She said that I probably just haven't had an opportunity yet. So anyway, I did go out with a girl a few times last week, nothing big really just shooting pool and having a couple drinks. This girl knows my situuation and I've been very open with her about not getting into a realtionship, she is actually trying to get over a recent engaement herself. So at least as far as I'm concerned this isn't going to be anything but friends.
THe point is I mentioned it to my wife a few days ago and she just blew it off. I just wantde to show her that if I wanted someone else I could. Now today she called me while traveling from one job to another, she talked about a few things and then at the end she asked if I "was going to see that girl again". I told her I don't know, but I didn't really want to discuss it with her. she said oh, I was just trying to talk.
I think the question was sparked by my not being here when she picked the kids up last night. I went with my buddy to help him move something and didn't tell her exactly what I was doing, just that my parents had the kids and I'd see here today.