Wow you are in the sitch I see happening soon in mine. The way things are going in my home and wife getting closer and closer daily to the OM. I am just now getting ready to get a apt thats going to make $$$ tight and having a new crewcab Ford Superduty I won't be owning much longer too if I want to have food on my table so selling that soon. Also moving in with my parents is not something im looking at doing yet if I can make it. Its bad enough having to get a apt afer paying on a house for years. My wife just got approved for her homelone so yea Im with ya on that nothing is going to change for her either she gets to keep her new mini van have a nice house and the whole 9yrds. She has a house in her name that she can afford with out support. I have to get a apt sell most of what I have and start my life all over again like I just got out of High School and moved out of home.
I got to hand it to ya you are way more in touch with your actions and thoughts than I am. If i pulled into the drive and saw OM mowing my lawn wow that could be bad. That would be tough you are a strong person to just walk away like that that is great. Shows you really are the better person. Don't think that she did not notice how you handeled that sitch Im sure she knew how hard that must have been to pull in the driveway and see that "friend" doing the yardwork. Your handling things way better than me. I could learn a few things from you.