well I saw her as we exchanged the kids so she could go to work. It went okay, no fight, alittle discussion but no fight. She was visibly upset, alot because she has to go to work and everyone there has turned on her for some reason. So she says she just wants everyone to quit "Sh!tting" on her. She feels that between work and me she can't handle things. I've told her I'm trying to help her. I know my actions aren't showing that and I've told her that I'm acting out of desperation. I really do want to help her so much, she is in a very miserable point in her life and I want to make that better. I just want to be able to hold her and take all her pain away. I wish I was able to just pull back and let her do what she needs to do, but my gut instinct is to try to show her that I'd be the H that she deserves.
