looking for support.

[RBinBR]

My question is would this be ggod for my DBing efforts, leaving the area for 2 months?

It very well might. It depends on what you will do with yourself emotionally during that time. If you use it to get counseling and gain control of your emotions in a way that lets you come back and be a better person for your wife, then I say "absolutely yes."

Have you asked her how she would feel about this?