Nothing wrong with a good philosophical debate. I love them too. But personally I don’t give a rat’s ass about your creationist views. My point is that your position seems to be set in stone with no options for alternate opinions. You have no proof for your positions and neither does anyone else have proof to disprove your position. When you scream that you are right, just who are you trying to convince and why? Why do you care whether your wife or anyone else believes as you do, especially if it is all not provable?
The answer is because you require confirmation of your views from others to maintain your sense of who you are. If someone disagrees, it is tantamount to an attack on you and your integrity. Ultimately you have no confidence in yourself. This is enmeshment. BTDT (been there done that). Religion, sex, money, politics, it doesn’t matter. An enmeshed person will launch into an argument with someone who disagrees with him no matter what the topic.
The irony is that for your blind devotion to the Bible, your arguing and narrow point of view is really hypocritical to what you say you believe in. I’m not knowledgeable about the Bible, so I’ll leave it to others to quote any passages that might explain this better.
I’m still waiting for a little more information on your background.