Thanks for the reply guys...but I'm sure of it. All of the pieces fit, and the more I think about it...I am sooooooo happy!!! I feel like a piano has been lifted off my back. I have already made several friends at the asexual website, and they have made me feel right at home. Very nice people. I can just feel all of the negativity dripping out of body. This has gone from the worst day of my life to the best day.