Checking in, not checking out!

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Its really good to have you back Tim, especially given that your sitch has really taken a positive turn. Your story is particularly interesting becuase I think it shows how powerful detachment can be. When you were emotionally attached to your W's actions/feelings, we could really see the struggle you were in. I think, as GH pointed out, your name became an adjective for what not to do! lol. But the results of really focusing on yourself and detaching from the sitch are very evident. I'm so happy for you.

As for my sitch, yes, I agree. We are in a rut so to speak and one of my goals is to get "together" time more often and do some things we never had the opportunity to do. Interstingly, we have been doing this more in the past two years than we ever had in the first several years of our marriage.