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[PArob]

Thank you so much for your positive reply....once I find the links to my sitch I'll put them here....they're buried in here somewhere, lol.

You raise some good points and I guess once I'm honest with myself, six months isn't a lifetime. Of course, when one is going through the sitch, it seems forever.

To her credit, I have to believe that my W is committed to our marriage. At the very least, she is sticking by and from what I can gather, the A has lost some of its steam. Yes, patience is key and I keep telling myself that.

As for your specific questions, with three small children and my W's work schedule (she works overnights) its hard to actually do "fun" things together, but I do try to schedule times during the weekends when we can do family things together. Just recently, I surprised my W with tickets to a concert in Philadelphia for an artist that she absolutely loves, made arrangements for childcare and booked a hotel. We had a blast. Of course, we can't do such things every weekend. On our "off" weekends, we typically catch up on tv shows that we like and catch up on work around the house.

The point is, I have identified that we need to add some "excitement and adventure" to our R and I actively try to come up with things for us to do to have fun to fill that void.

Thanks again for checking in!