Hi RB, Our 6th anniversary will be in July, and I am already trying to figure out what would or would not be appropriate if we are still in the sitch we are in now Ironically, I have invited H to travel with me every year because my work calls me away every year at our anniversary time. He has never come with me. And now, this is the FIRST year since we've been married that I will be home on the day. However, H's birthday is coming up in June, which I have always made a big deal about. I have decided to ask H if he wants me to make plans around his b-day as I have in the past, or not. That way it is at least his choice. In some ways my H is feeling like he wants more of me around lately so he might want me to make plans. Anyway do you think you could ask your W if she wants to celebrate it in any way, or would even mentioning the anniversary be too much pressure/guilt for her?
PositivelyListening ************************************** When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller
Ironically, I have invited H to travel with me every year because my work calls me away every year at our anniversary time. He has never come with me. And now, this is the FIRST year since we've been married that I will be home on the day. 
However, H's birthday is coming up in June, which I have always made a big deal about. I have decided to ask H if he wants me to make plans around his b-day as I have in the past, or not. That way it is at least his choice. In some ways my H is feeling like he wants more of me around lately so he might want me to make plans. Anyway do you think you could ask your W if she wants to celebrate it in any way, or would even mentioning the anniversary be too much pressure/guilt for her? 