Quote: I agree that you have to do what you have to do - for YOU and you alone. Whatever it may be....wherever the path may take you.
No, not for me alone. My D's happiness has to figure into the equation, and I'll even consider my W's, to a lesser extent --she would ultimately find it very hard to forgive herself if there were a divorce. But, yes, my happiness counts too; and none of us would truly be happy if I took my W back the way she is.
Quote: In the meantime, keep working on you and enjoy your D while she's still little...they grow up too fast!
That's what hit me while we were at Disneyworld, and why I want more.
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)