Actually, I think that the longer that D continues to live with me and see W for only a couple of hours a week, the better my custody case gets. The custody and financial situations are stable and I don't see any need to press forward with it right now.
Thanks for your kind words, though. I'm not going to be passive-aggressive toward my W. I just avoided her tonight so that I wouldn't say anything I would regret.
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)