RB, I haven't posted much on your thread but you have given me some needed advice. I am kind of where you are at. My M is over. But when I look in my children's eyes (3) and see how much they love their dad, I just don't know if I can end things. But, I don't know how I can continue the way it is. Everything I read about statistics shows that D affects kids big time. My H and I each have so much baggage from our childhoods, and our parents are still married, God only knows how much a D can compound things for them.
Anyway, by responding to your post I have decided to stay in my marriage, even if only temporarily, for my kids sake. I do not want them to suffer or hurt anymore than they have in the last 7 months.
Sorry for the hijack, again I'm apologizing - Catholic guilt with a few beers added for good measure.
