No decisions need to be made this week, or this month. Focus your time and efforts right now on becoming the best RB you can be. Avoid getting sucked into REacting, basing your moods on your R, pushing away just to try to get a reaction out of her, etc.
You don't want her the way she is now. You have no way of knowing if you will want her when she starts to deal with herself (if she does). I think dropping the rope right now is an excellent idea, but don't be passive-aggressive about it. Just drop the rope, concentrate on you and your beautiful child, and finding joy in every day.
