You know that we all have to make the decisions about what we choose to endure for this process. You have made yours and I truly hope it works out for you, whatever "working out" is to you.
I know you are doing what you think is best for you and your daughter. Please, don't stop posting if you still have need to seek advice or even vent. You are not letting anyone down, you're just going in another direction, one that I am not entirely sure is the opposite of DB at all.
As I recently said to someone, it seems like the most success comes when people finally have had enough and do what you just did. IF you want it, I hope that what you did serves as a wake up call to your W that things cannot continue as they are, as SHE is and for you to stick around to watch.
In some ways, you took a risk but in a very real sense, because of where you are at in your head, you took no risk at all, you simply decided what you want and don't want and acted on that decision.
I don't know where things will go for you from here but I wish you the best. Please, keep us posted and again, don't feel like since you are not "busting a divorce" you can't stay around here.
