I just told my wife that I was probably planning to file for divorce soon. I also ended up telling her that she wasn't a Christian and she was going to hell, along with the OM. I had packed up the rest of her stuff that was here at the house and put it in her SUV.

Needless to say, she left crying. She said that I had hurt her very deeply, and I asked her what she thought she had done to me for the past seven months.

I guess I should quit this board, because I'm really not DB'ing anymore. Part of me hopes that she'll yet end it with the OM, but a bigger part of me is now ready to move on with the rest of my life.


The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)