Amazing. I opened your thread to read, and as it was opening I went to grab my breakfast. I thought to myself, it is really a problem that your W is apparently bouncing back and forth between you and OM as if it she has to be with one of the two of you to keep at least one of you happy, when what she probably really needs right now is space from both of you. Some period of time *alone* where she learns that it is a real option for her to be by herself so that she can really *choose* to be with you.
So, I think this is really wonderful news -- it seems a step toward her really taking care of herself and extracting herself from this mess. And, once she gets that sense of freedom and independence, she may just come around to choosing you before too long.
