Thank you all for the welcome. I have read Divorce Busting and found it to be very interesting and useful, unfortunately it is very clear to me that the techniques are not very useful while the affair is ongoing, and I don't know how much longer I can grin and bear it while she keeps it going. We started marriage counseling, but she is there only for me, so there's little chance that she'll take it seriously or actively participate in it. I have told my aunt and uncle and my wife's parents about it in an effort to put some pressure on them, and there is no doubt in my mind that this took them out of the honeymoon stage, but they are still at it, and still in la-la land.
I have no doubt that this affair stands in the way of making any sort of constructive progress in our marriage - which leads me to want to try anything in my power to bring the affair to an end. Anyone have any ideas?
“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ” – Albert Einstein
