"This point stirred something in me because, for me, I never thought about cheating. It was something that happened to other people. Immoral people who don't understand the meaning of vows....I always thought 'geez, if you're gonna cheat, just get divorced'. And then I cheated. I feel like if I would not have been so dissmissive and judgmental of others, maybe I could have thought through some of those issues before I put myself in the fire, wearing the scarlet leter. I thought I was better than people who cheated. Well, I wasn't."
I could have written that exact paragraph word for word Heather. It is SOOO true. I definitely have a new appreciation for this thing we call marriage, and how difficult it truly is. This wiping away of my silly notions about the evils of cheaters has given me more tolerance in other areas of my life as well. Interesting how even a lemon like an EA can be turned into lemonade.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
