Not that it took three times reading it to make your point, , but this is an interesting wrinkle in the whole equation, isn't it, Mojo? Yeah, I'm not unattractive, but I don't get double-takes, or whistles, or much of anything from random women. In my work environment, there is such a fear of sexual harassment charges, that people just don't even seem to look at each other very much. But I remember walking with a female friend of mine downtown a long time ago, and she got about a dozen such looks, comments, whistles. And yes, she took all of it as a compliment.
I just try to see my W's lack of desire as a lack of an ability to show desire, and think that it's just "unfortunate" rather than calculated, or insulting. Yeah, that's what I do on my "good" days, anyway.
, but this is an interesting wrinkle in the whole equation, isn't it, Mojo? Yeah, I'm not unattractive, but I don't get double-takes, or whistles, or much of anything from random women. In my work environment, there is such a fear of sexual harassment charges, that people just don't even seem to look at each other very much. But I remember walking with a female friend of mine downtown a long time ago, and she got about a dozen such looks, comments, whistles. And yes, she took all of it as a compliment.
