Dave,

You said:
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Then welcome to your marriage. Make it work or leave.
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That is where the rubber hits the road isn't it. Our S is not a home improvement project. They aren't going to change to suit us. However, they may be willing to change to suit themselves. We also may have to change to suit ourselves. If we aren't happy with the status quo - whose problem is it?

I wish I could just buy some new lingerie instead!

Karen