What Happened with the Schnarch Movement???

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Dave,
Good to see you around!

Say, lemme ask you this.

As the female half of our M, I have never been the primary initiator. I don't even initiate half of the time. I could go into the reasons here but suffice it to say that neither of us like the Female Initiator setup.

So what do we lady Schnarch fans do? I loved your advice and especially the part about letting your feelings put them in the crucible, as opposed to convos, but I'm not sure how to do that in the absence of me initiating.

I can tell you that were I to initiate every time I wanted sex, things would get MUCH worse in my house--not better, Schnarch or no. Call it male ego problems, call it what you will, but it just wouldn't work.

Any alternative ideas for the HDW's of the board?

Thanks!

P.S. I never did get the pedals of D6's bike but she learned how to ride the dang thing, anyway.