Quote: When I bring up the sex issue my bf (a Seven) says, "Oh so we're back to THAT again?" in a tiresome, I-was-wondering-when-you-were-going-to-bash-me-over-the-head-again-with-that-issue tone in his voice. At that moment, I hate his guts.
I still find it semi-impossible to imagine a LD Type 7 but if I accept that premise I would suspect that your BF would prefer that you "do" something cheerfully about the problem rather than talk about it negatively. For instance, I would die of happiness if instead of complaining to me about hating his job, my H would just wake up one morning with a full load of self-confidence and whistle while he worked on his resume. Though I must admit that this seems like a tough rule of thumb to apply to your situation. Perhaps if you imagined that you were a jolly prostitute with a heart of gold who specialized in men with ED and was very confident at her job?
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
