That was a good post Corri. I think a lot of the people here like to vent but deep down they know they are not going to truly rock the boat of their M. Would never leave even if they were depressed to the point of suicidal ideation. That is F-ed up to me (now) but I'm also understanding of their position. I don't think I would have left my M either (not sure). It took my H truly sinking the ship for anything to truly change.