What Happened with the Schnarch Movement???

[MJontheMend]

In general, what are the definitions of HD vs LD? I realize that will differ depending on opinion, but I'm just wondering what the general consensus is? I ask because even though I only actually desire H a few times a month, I'm not sure if that classifies me as LD or not because there are/were plenty of times when I'd rather just MB than be with H. So I guess that indicates desire, just not a desire for H?

The way I'm looking at things now. The best way to define HD and LD is in terms of behavior, not relative or even objective level of physical hornyness. Under my definition, you were behaving as the LD spouse when you chose to MB rather than confront your sexual issues within the context of your relationship. Nearly all LD husbands do this. Of course, I realize as I'm typing this that nearly all HD husbands do this too. So, once again I'm back to my new theory that HD and LD are two sides of the same dysfunctional coin.