Re Cemar There was one in there who had No desire, but then it turns out that she really did have one that was just buried (so in effect she had a sex drive). But what about the women that has no sex drive at all and likely never will (due to numerous physical conditions). This is why I continue to work on our R.
Determining what is real lack of desire and why, IE( no desire but willing) and maybe will improve over time, what is possible w/o creating resentments, what is possible but creates resentments, what is never going to happen so don't go there, you are digging your own grave, and what are deal breakers and can I/she handle the fall out.
