"As far as being the good DBer, I would give myself a B-. I have attempted getting a life. I am back in school working towards a second degree with better job prospects and I have joined a band - something I've wanted to do for about 30 years. I stopped begging and crying and talking about the OM and generally became my cheating spouses' friend. I have tried to follow the example of successful DBing oldtimer, MF, who also had a cheating wife whom he won back with his DBing skills. If you haven't read his posts, look him up. If you can't find it, post a request here and I will find the link....Very inspirational."
Can anybody help with a link - I could use some inspiration!
