Sorry about your situation. But did notice something similar in your situation. My W has not said that we will never have a second chance, but just indicates that it would not be right now. W wants to continue to live with OM and GF for now, keep the house, the kids keep staying with me and they come to see her at new place on occasion. I told her that we would need to work on that plan, because I did agree about the kids going over there to spend the night. She could take them to her Sister's who does not live far or maybe stay at the house in separate room, or I could go my mom's overnight while she stay with them. They act like this is no big deal and do not understand why we do not jummp for joy at our new life style. They just seem to believe that the grass is just greener on the otherside for now, but are afraid of loosing the safety net of the past.
