Hiya SAHDaddy... not much advice... but just wanna check up how you are doing... I think our sitch started around the same time... I guessed I agree with your counsellor, i.e Sit tight. Don't go file yourself. If she wants to have the D to be with om, then late her do it. Keep text messages and emails (if you have them) that W sends to you. Those could be used as "supporting" information IF and IF D does go ahead...