Well, I was going to take the night off from posting but this got my attention. This idea that somehow my W is waiting for me to "adore" her or somehow pursue her while she is possibly with another man is really bothering me. I know how you feel. You read all this stuff about not pursuing and then come to find out that she was waiting all along for you to do exactly that. I wish I could give you advice but I am right here with you on this one. How do you pursue someone who seems to want nothing to do with you, at least THAT way? If someone knows, please tell me/us.
That's it for me tonight. I'm off to bed with my W who curls up on the edge of the bed lest I somehow come in contact with her...sigh.
