Ok, sounds like you are more familiar with his sitch than I. Carry on...
I do have one question though; has he been DBing WELL, and EFFECTIVLY for that much time or just trying to DB without really sticking to it like many of us? That question goes to OT's question she posed to Tim yesterday. She asked him if, after having to go the distance and talk to lawyers, etc, basically start down the divorce road HIMSELF, whether it would have been better to have REALLY given his W the space and detached before it got that far?
That's all I am saying. Did he honestly do all he could before "kicking her out?".
NOW, I don't know how well I would do if my W was having sleep-overs with OM. I know for me, that is a boundary that I don't think I could cross so it may be a moot point.
