Just a quick post - H and I are now talking about his lack of libido. He is trying - now having physical problems again. He brought it up again this morning - can't understand why sex is so important to me! What am I supposed to say - because I gave up having roommates about 20 years ago! and thought marriage was different than it is??? So, as always, the problem is on my shoulders - it is always my fault. (Excuse me for venting!)
How do we all live with this on a long term basis. This has been going on in my marriage for over 10 years now. I am not leaving him but sometimes it hurts and is so painful my kids even notice my bad moods. They are in their teenage years now and I can't hide things as well as I used to.
Any suggestions - I know he's not changing so I am trying to change to become more attractive but I really don't think that's the problem.
