Unless 2 people have no sex drive which would be 1 in 1,000,000 and agree to happily live together like that...lack of sexual intimacy in marriage will most probably drive one spouse to someone else at some point.
The temptation will be there! If that person chooses to work on that relationship and both work out their differences, it will take time. The amount of time it takes to work things out depends on how far things have gone and how much resentment has built up between them.
If the couple is non communicative about it or think they are communicating but don't have communication skills they need...Counseling is necessary at this time. If these things don't happen and you just assume that this will be ok....NOT!
I wouldn't doubt that your H has some interest in someone else. It is the nature of this. Sex is the glue that holds marriages together.
Have you guys done counseling? What has been your recent communication about this? Yes, they can fall back in love with you...but it won't just happen without things changing and communication. But they also have to do willing to work on the R.
Used to have sex, but now he doesn't want sex...and you are separated....spells another woman.
