Thanks guys for your replies. I've been really busy since my first post.
No, I don't suspect infidelity - that is far, far from his style. I guess maybe I suspect boredom. Sad, huh. Well, NHTom, I believe you are right. I decided over the last few days to take some time for myself - maybe become the person he fell in love with a while ago and take care of me - my family needs me and I need me. I went to 2 yoga classes over the last 2 days and feel so much better.
I keep remembering what a favorite pastor of mine told me many years ago - that he had a wife come to him and tell him to tell her husband to "love her" again - but that is something you can't tell someone to do! It is something the husband has to decide to do again. Maybe we are at that point - I just know in my heart confronting him is not going to work - again, not his style.
