Quote: taking the happiness you found when your marriage was out the door and bringing it back in to the relationship.
I hear you. That is what I want.
He has not come back totally from insane land. He gets inordinately upset for things that I think are relatively inocuous.
Ah well. This roller coaster may still be going but I have found away to experience it with good humor and enough distance to realize that even when the ride ends I will get off intact, secure in my soul and the fact that my happiness is created within.