Fantasy relationship? You mean a relationship with kissing and cuddling and frequent sex can only be a FANTASY? Not sure why any of us would even be here then.
What does my wife want. She wants someone that is ambitious, she wants someone that has something in common with her, she want EC, but mostly she wants someone whose love language is NOT physical touch, she wants someone that is HAPPY in a SSM.
Concepts? Move forward. I would LOVE to know what it is that the man can do that will DIRECTLY impact his marriage. All I have seen is the guy is supposed to make himself attractive. From that point on it is entirely up to the LD woman. I have asked before and no one on these boards has ever explained how the LD female is supposed to actually MAKE the changes that are necessary. If the guy does everything that he is supposed to do, that gets you 10% of the way to a solution, the other 90% must come from the women, and yet no one addresses that. It just some how magically happens.
