Well, CeMar, somehow you have to get the message across to her. Obviously you haven't done that. Why not try some of the things people on this board have told you for the past year? Nobody really knows your situation, but I would guess theres something wrong with the relationship, along with having children (which can and does change a woman). I bet you are one of those people that sees the glass as half empty, as opposed to half full, eh? I have read the posts on here the past year and you have been given some really great advice, but I don't see you taking any of it and putting it to use. Just my observation. Good luck CeMar