SEX is biological....chores are a freaking list of things to do! One IS chemical....one isn't.
You won't undertand this though....because you refuse to accept it. I maintain though that with you in your sitch, it's R issues. You remain your own worst enemy CeMar.
I tried to make it so you could understand....but you are more stubborn than any mule I've ever come across. Do you know why I've made progress in my R? It's because I think of ways to bring my H to me, so he feels safe to be who he is.....especially after my discovery of what he'd been doing online. You get so tied up in your resentment of your situation and your anger....there is absolutely no way your W is going to feel safe enough with you to be intimately close to you. You truly do come across to this particular woman as "I want it my way, when I want it, and how I want it"....and nothing else will do. Well man....coming across that way, you won't get what you want.
