Why is it that only SEXUAL thoughts require "chemical reactions" before they occur? It's like the ONLY thoughts that don't make it into her head are the sexual ones. She even thinks about CHORES before she thinks about sex. How freaking difficult is it to think "I would LOVE to give my spouse some unbelievable physical pleasure". And yet she will be thinking about the kids, the bills, the house, ANYTHING except about pleasing the spouse. Someone once mentioned on here that being LD is the same as being self centered, and the more I watch my wife, the more I think this is true. THey don't think about sex because it's not important to them. Anything that IS important to them, they DO think about. They KNOW we want great sex, they KNOW we want a physical connection, they are reminded of it CONSTANTLY, and yet, they claim they can not THINK about sex. You can say it is the most importatn thing in your life, and yet, they can not THINK about it. No, because it is NOT about them, that is the problem.
