Why is it so hard for women with low or no libido to think about giving great sex to their husbands. These women complain that their biology is not jump starting the thought process. But at the same time, I know that my wife thinks about EVERYTHING else. My wifes head is RACING with thoughts, even to the point she has trouble turning down the ideas so she can get to sleep. So virtually every subject DOES get into her head while sex can't? It just seems to me that thinking about pleasing your spouse should NOT require chemical intervention, all these other subjects don't.
