One of our big problems is that since menopause I have absolutely no libido! We had a fabulous sex life before menopause. I enjoy sex once we begin it - complete with orgasms. But my husband wants me to initiate sex. I am a young 60 year old. People tell me I look 50 and I certainly feel 50 in every way but sex. I have looked into medical help, Intrinsa is not FDA approved yet, but my understanding is that it is the female Viagra, not a libido booster. I realize that since we have other problems as well, that my "head" is not in having sex, but menopause is a fact.