Well yesterday my W called me I had talked to her I was in a good mood she was having problems, with her hip hurting. I was extra nice to her. I went home she had been talking about myspace so I looked at her account, It only said in a relationship. I told her that mine said married, and if she only wanted to claim to be in a R than we need to set some ground rules. (oh also the guy she is living with put in a R on his also) So that raised suspisons. I asked her to call me back. At this point I was upset so I decided to turn my phone off and it was better that I didn't speak to her. So she comes over to my house and I was across the street at a mutual F house. So I talked to her about the whole thing I was up front and honest with her I told her if she didn't feel like being married that we don't have to be I can acccept it and move on. She said she wants to be married to me. I told her that was fine but she shouldn't be looking for the benifits of being married while claiming she's not. Than we left it at that. I told her that I was going to talk to our F for a little while longer, than go home and go to bed. I went over and they invited me out for Sushi, I have no food or money right now so I accepted. My W got upset with me. We talked for a bit and ended when a call interupted us. So I told her I would talk to her later, she called while I was asleep and apologized to me for being so mean to me and she said that she changed her account to married, and that she would call me tommorrow.