Is it normal to feel used? My W is saying she wants things to work and that she thinks things will work yet last night she looked like she was going to give me a kiss but when I went in for one she said she wasn't ready yet. I felt so rejected. The feelings of rejection might due in this M. I can respect what she is saying and I do love her more than anything (except for maye my S) but to be rejected by the one you love felt like I had my heart ripped out again. She said let her come to me. I'm trying to do this but it seems like our progress has hit a rut. I'm just really confused right now about where everything is headed. I really want to belive my W that our M will work.