I need some help.

[BeingMe]

Since your WAW has indicated she wants the M to work, and she always liked your being romantic, I would do something, but keep it low-key. I would certainly get a card, but aim for something amusing rather than overly romantic, and give a gift like a framed photo of the children (if you have any), or a book on a favourite hobby or hers (if she has any), or take her for a dance lesson - just have fun. I wouldn't go for a candlelit dinner, or sexy lingerie, or perfume - she may see that as pressure, sexually speaking. If she wants romance, then she should organize it, and make the overtures. Anyway, that's my opinion.