My situation is a little different than most. My wedding band was a little big on me. I went fishing and lost it in the river. My wife wasn't happy about it but never made a big issue of it either. I never got another one and haven't worn a ring since.
My wife never said anything about our marriage to me. A couple of weeks ago she blind sided me with wanting a divorce. About a week before that she took her ring off. She's never taken it off since we've been married. A couple of the diamonds came loose and she was afraid she would loose them. At the time she took it off it was untill we could get it fixed. Well, last week I got the ring fixed. I told her and she said she'll put it back on if she feels like it. I figure when she took the ring off is when she decided she wanted out. She's telling me that it was just a coincidence. I know she said she wants a divorce but, I'm really hurt by the fact she won't wear it. We are still married. Next week she's going on a trip out of state to see friends. I'm really wanting her to wear it on her trip. I know I can't say anything without it being a control issue in her mind.
