I don't know if I will be of any help since I've lost the battle and are in the middle of the war with the D we are heading to mediation so I don't know what else to do. anyway I think you should back off and see what happens and in that time focus on your life and how you can improve it go out with friends and have fun and maybe she will see what she is missing. that is if you want her back do you b/c I'm not sure by what you said in your post about she didn't hink it would work out I'm noone is 100% sure it will work the first time let alone the second time give it space and see what if anything happens I hope I helped some Joa.