He actually said he felt like he "was talking to a brick wall" the other night...yet, when I try and open up, then I feel like I'm the one hitting the brick wall as he doesn't reciprocate. I also feel like I'm *pursuing*....not sure if I should be telling him stuff if he's involved with OW.
OK, so you understand his brick wall feeling validate it. Then share your own experience, just like you did with us in that quote above...