Ya know something, OT....you're dead-on here. I guess that's why I've been tossing around the idea of going dark. I get the sense that OW may not be in the picture anymore. That's also in the back of my mind.I guess if I'm honest, I had hoped with her out of the picture, he'd be more into me, I guess. And, well, I just don't know. I mean on some levels, yes, he's around more, calls more, etc. I think my problem is my *expectations*, which, I need to get rid of. I try really hard not to have any expectations, but - they do creep in whether I recognize them or not. And, if OW is out of the picture, I need to...well, what do I need to do? That is the question...give him more space? Be more attuned to him? I'm not sure. He made that remark last week about wanting me to make him feel more special - I've been thinking about that a lot. I don't know what to do with that comment. IMO, I have such a hard time with it if there's OW involved - know what I mean? Then again - is that what he needs to make him look at me again?
You're right OT, guess I haven't given him true space. So, how do I do that?
